[Cynnabar] A "minor" bit of censorship
Charles J. Cohen
charles at eecs.umich.edu
Sat May 14 14:28:12 UTC 2011
Sorry to respond again. Just skip if this is of no interest.
>And yet, choosing to take personal offense where none is intended (I'm
>not saying that is you Dirk) when the criticism is aimed at someone
I think you are referring to me, since I made the first comment.
>else entirely is a sign that one might have a higher "sensitivity"
>than others reading the exact same thing. This is not surprising.
>Unfortunately, some people will naturally feel that they are being
>personally belittled when someone criticizes something they believe,
>no matter how sugar coated it gets. My post was satire, and not
>belittling to anyone here personally. Anybody here who didn't read it
>that way might seriously consider the implications of the term "knee-
>jerk reaction" and how it pertains to themself. Nobody says we all
>have to agree all the time, but taking offense at someone's
>disagreement is a choice.
Please note what I said before in my post:
>I'm glad [to] hear that wasn't the case.
(I left the [to] out, typo, sorry.)
It wasn't obvious to me, and I felt it sounded bad. Nowhere did I say it
was a personal attack.
And I go back to the whole main point of my post, which was:
> In this medium, it is very hard to read emotions, so I recommend that
> you respond a bit more carefully .
That's all, nothing more.
A good gentle, new to our group, makes a post about his office, and what
is one of the first responses? A heap of sarcasm (that I, personally,
also had trouble recognizing as such). That didn't seem fair to him.
- Midair
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